there, right where you say "you forego your right to be miffed when someone looks"...
I can tell you 100 things wrong with that, but I'll let it go because of the spirit in which it was intended. We'll leave that to Kobe Bryant's lawyer to prove.
Don't get me wrong. People will look; they can't avoid it. But also don't ignore the fact that I said STARE, by yourself in a tiny small deck where people just want peace and quiet.
and if the guy was 28 and buff, I'd be like "ok, you're not my elder so I don't have to be respectful, so *&^% off before I go and get my husband!" Stil not right. Think about this man's wife, would she say that he was just innocently taking a morning stroll?
Oh and Alsie, 45 IS NOT OLD!
Men have no idea what stuff we have to deal with, don't even let me get started with breastfeeding and the dirty looks I got from people!